12. Love is focusing on quality, not quantity
爱注重质量而非数量
Love focuses on the quality of your relationship, not its longevity. I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase, “It’s better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all?” Just because your relationship lasts a long time doesn’t mean that you have true love. Real love can be very brief. Therefore, quality and quantity of love are not the same things.
爱重在彼此关系的质量,而非相处了多长时间。相信你肯定听说过这句话——宁愿去爱去迷失,也总比不曾爱过的好。就算你们已经相处很长时间,也不表示你们就是真心相爱。真爱可以很短暂。所以说,爱质量和爱数量完全是两码事。
13. Love requires attention
爱需要关注
Love doesn’t ignore. It doesn’t look the other way. It wants to be present and be together. When people are in love, sometimes they think that they don’t have to “do any more work.” But real love actually enjoys giving attention to another person. It feels good, and doesn’t see giving attention to another person as a chore.
爱不可视而不见,不可心有旁骛;爱需要即时即刻在一起。有些人以为相爱时无需“多此一举”,但真正的爱其实是需要给予对方关注的。关心对方会让你感到开心,而且一点也不觉得琐碎麻烦。
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