不要等别人来介绍你,你应该先主动介绍自己。最近我在电视上看到美国总统巴拉克•奥巴马:他向投票点走去,竞选2017年的美国总统。我一直留意他的言行究竟如何与众不同。
Here’s what stood out: he walked confidently with a smile on his face, and he took time to introduce himself to the individuals in the room. That’s all, and it made him appear to be very presidential, very confident in himself.
这个与众不同就是:他面带微笑地自信地走过去,然后开始向房间里的所有人介绍自己。就凭这样,已经使他显得非常有总统范儿、对自己非常有信心了。
He could have walked in there with his head held down, assuming everyone knew who he was, like the socially anxious. But instead, he owned his space, he initiated contact and looked very powerful in the process.
本来他也可以低着头走过去,心里猜测别人怎么看他,一副社交焦虑的样子;但是,他压住了气场、主动开始了交流,整个过程都显得很有震慑力。
8. Move Slow
放慢动作
One “sure fire” way to appear socially anxious is to make lots of sudden movements. Consider the lion, the lion only moves when it is necessary, all of its movements are deliberate. The lion appears confident; the lion is confident.
显得社交焦虑的一个“致命”方法就是一下子做太多动作。想想狮子吧,只会在必要时出动,而且每次出动都很慎重。狮子不仅看上去很自信,也确实很有信心。
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