I am a striver and my fiancée is a creative free spirit. In the five years we have lived together, I have paid off my debts and built a stock portfolio big enough for a deposit on a house in London. She has a credit-card bill and hefty student loan. To be fair, she has quit jobs and moved country twice so I can pursue my career. I want to buy a house in an unfashionable but upcoming area while she prefers to rent somewhere trendier. My primary aim is matrimonial harmony: what should I do?
我是一个努力奋斗的人,我的未婚妻则是一个富有创造力、无拘无束的人。在我们一起生活的五年当中,我偿清了自己的债务,并积累起了一个股票投资组合,其规模足以支付在伦敦购买一栋房子的定金。未婚妻则背负着信用卡账单以及高昂的学生贷款债务。平心而论,她为了我能追寻自己的事业,曾经两次辞职并跨国迁移。我希望在一个并不时髦但前景看好的地段买一栋房子,而她想要在更时尚的地方租房居住。我的首要目标是和谐的婚姻关系:我应当怎么做?
Analyst, male, 32
分析师,男性,32岁
Lucy’s answer
露西的建议
If you have found a woman who will traipse around the world behind you while you further your career, and if, after all that traipsing, she is still a creative free spirit rather than a put-upon, resentful misanthrope, you have done well. Your investment in love has been even wiser than your investment in equities (which has also been pretty good, judging by the fact that you already have enough for a house deposit).
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