有时你会觉得自己在辩论中是正确的,但如果赢得了辩论可能会失去朋友。所以最聪明的做法莫过于在此刻避免过多的争论。更多时候,如果不是什么大事,那个有自己观点的人也许会了解你的想法,或者你也可能更好的了解ta的立场。所以,别人不赞同你,并不代表ta就是错的。少辩论,也给别人提供了必须的空间和威望,同时你也能给自己争取更多时间来从别的角度审视别人的观点。除此之外,你还能从他人身上获得更多的尊重。这也能表明你变得更加成熟了。
4. You enjoy each season
你享受每个季节
Most of us have a likening for either summer or winter or spring or rains. That’s fine. But there is no need to get irritated whenever your favorite season has been replaced by another one. There is a cycle of seasons and life forms adapt to that. No one can control seasonal cycles and no one should control them. So if you are enjoying changes in season, however abrupt they might seem, you have grown into a matured individual.
大部分人都会更喜欢夏天或冬天或春天或雨季。这个没啥,但自己最爱的季节过去了也没必要感到恼火。季节的轮替就是这样,我们生命早已习惯如此。没有人可以控制季节的循环也不能去控制。所以如果你很享受季节的变换,不管变得多么突然,你已经变得更成熟了。
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