Continue speaking about the issue on the table if you physically can. If not, don’t apologize, but say, “now we’re going to discontinue this discussion because I find what happened just that troubling. I’ll let you know when I’m ready to continue this conversation,” Williams says.
如果可以的话,把问题摆在桌面上进行讨论。如果做不到,也不必道歉,但威廉姆斯表示,要告诉对方:“下面我们先中断讨论吧,因为我发现情况有些麻烦。如果我做好了继续谈话的准备,我会告诉大家。”
The key is to acknowledge the emotion or the circumstances that led to your outburst, but don’t apologize for it. “When you start apologizing, it takes one person’s discomfort and makes two people uncomfortable,” Binstock says. Indeed, if you’re crying because of a sympathetic response, “there’s no reason to apologize that you feel comfortable enough with someone to let your emotions out.”
关键是要承认导致自己情绪爆发的情感或环境,但没有必要道歉。宾斯托克表示:“如果你开始道歉,对方会感觉不舒服,这样会让两个人都难受。”事实上,如果你是因为对方的同情反应而哭泣,“更没有理由因为有人让你宣泄自己的情绪而向对方表示歉意。”
Then, move on. “Just get over it. Everyone else will forget about it if you forget about it,” Kleiman says.
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