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大叔控请注意如何展现独具魅力的个人风度

Gravitas is first and foremost about confidence and staying calm in a stressful situation, and then showing teeth, which means being decisive even when faced with hard choices, Ms. Hewlett says. Emotional intelligence, or an ability to show empathy, also matter.

休利特说，要做到举止端庄，最重要的就是自信和在有压力时保持冷静，其次是表现出强硬的一面，这意味着要果断，即便是在面对艰难抉择的情况下。情商，或者说表达情感的能力，也很重要。

Next comes communication, or the ability to express your point of view in an effective way, she says. A concise and compelling speaking style matters most, especially when it isn't scripted. Confident body language and eye contact help you command a room, as does finding a low register for your speaking voice.

她说，其次是沟通，或者说以有效方式表达自己观点的能力。一种简洁而又有说服力的讲话方式至关重要，特别是脱稿讲话。自信的肢体语言和眼神交流有助于你掌控一个房间的气氛，为自己的讲话声调找到一个低音区也有同样的作用。

Appearance is the least important element, according to Ms. Hewlett's survey. Yet it holds a crucial position as a filter, the first test of presence that people subconsciously subject you to. 'If you don't pass that test, no one's going to worry too much about your gravitas because you are struck off the list,' Ms. Hewlett says. Her research has found women are most often discredited because of provocative clothing, while men are docked for appearing out of shape.