两个人相处就是不对，身心俱疲

If you're feeling drained with your partner, you're likely caught up in an entanglement. In a harmonious relationship, both people take responsibility for any issues that arise, and they come up with creative solutions that further add to the positive feelings they share.

如果你觉得跟另一半在一起身心俱疲，那么你们可能就到了瓶颈期。在一段美好的恋爱关系里，两个人对出现的任何问题都勇于承担，一起去想出有创造性的解决方案来给彼此的感情增彩。

What to Do if You're in an Entanglement: 2 Steps

身处恋爱瓶颈期怎么办：2步走

So what if you have the terrible feeling that you're in an entanglement right now, or that you've been in entanglements before?

如果你现在或是过去真的处在恋爱瓶颈期，感觉无比难受，该怎么办呢？

Relax: It's completely normal. Most people have been in an entanglement, and a lot of them have been in many.

放松：恋爱瓶颈真的非常正常。大部分人都会遇到瓶颈期，且大多数人经历不止一次。

So, here's what you need to do:

所以，下面是你需要做的：

Step 1: Identify that you're in an entanglement

步骤1：意识到恋爱到了瓶颈期

Knowing whether you're in a pattern of entanglement is key to resolving it once and for all. Otherwise, there's a "blind spot" that keeps you from moving forward, and you're doomed to keep repeating the pain and struggle.

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