为什么给男友打扫房间不能收费_BEC初级作文

为什么给男友打扫房间不能收费

你的提议没有问题。从你的角度讲，这是个聪明的提议。但我觉得你忽视了你男朋友不想这样做的真正原因：那会让他在自己家里不自在。付钱给跟他谈恋爱的人干活会让他觉得很奇怪，尽管不是直接给钱。况且，给你这个责任会让他陷入一种尴尬的境地——假如你打扫得不够干净的话。他可以解雇一个清洁工，但是不能解雇自己女朋友。

This is an ethics column, so — ethically — I’m on your side. But ethics can’t be the only consideration in a dispute that combines the personal with the professional. This really has nothing to do with morality. Your boyfriend simply doesn’t want to add an unnecessary power dynamic to your relationship.

这是一个伦理栏目，所以从伦理角度讲，我站在你这边。但是在一个既涉及人际关系又涉及职业关系的争论中，不应该只考虑伦理。这真的跟道德没有任何关系。你男朋友只是不想在你们的关系中增加一个无谓的变数。

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I’ve been using the same landscaper for a few years now. On a recent morning, he and I happened to be at the gas station at the same time. He was filling up one of his trucks. As he started the engine, I noticed that he had a Breathalyzer device attached to the ignition — similar to the kind issued to individuals who have been convicted of D.W.I. I am starting to have concerns about my safety and my property. Should I ask the landscaper about this? Is it grounds enough to dismiss him? NAME WITHHELD, WHITE PLAINS