不过,最近的研究发现,人们其实完全不必担心请教他人会让自己显得无能。向他人请教问题不仅不会带来不便或是让被问者感到厌烦,反而会让你在别人眼中更聪明。
Harvard behavioral science professors Alison Wood Brooks and Francesca Gino, along with University of Pennsylvania business professor Maurice Schweitzer, discovered this phenomenon through a series of experiments conducted over the past few years. Their studies were recently published in Scientific American.
哈佛大学行为学教授埃尔森•伍德•布鲁克和弗兰斯克•吉诺,以及宾夕法尼亚大学的商学院教授马利斯•施韦泽经过几年的实验,共同发现了上述结论。最近,他们的科研成果发表登上了《科学美国人》杂志。
These researchers discovered that asking for advice is in fact a form of flattery. And in general, flattery reflects positively on the flatterer, even if the fawning is insincere.
他们发现:请教他人其实是一种恭维。而通常情况下,恭维对于恭维者有益无害,哪怕他的恭维毫无真心可言。
Ego booster
自尊心大增
According to researchers, by asking someone to share his or her wisdom, a person can boost the adviser’s ego.
研究同时发现:请求别人分享智慧,能让被请教之人自尊心大增。
But the power of advice-seeking has limits: You can’t boost someone’s ego if you ask something he or she has little knowledge about.
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