No matter how talented you are or what you've accomplished, there are certain phrases thatinstantly change the way people see you and can forever cast you in a negative light. These phrases are so loaded with negative implications that they undermine careers in short order. How many of these career killers have you heard around the office lately?
无论你有多聪明、多成功,仍有一些话可以立即改变别人对你的看法,并永远将你打入负面的冷宫。这些话承载着满满的负能量,并且可以迅速毁掉你的前程。最近在办公室里你又听到过多少这些职场杀手句呢?
1. "It's not fair"
这不公平
Everyone knows that life isn't fair. Saying it's not fair suggests that you think life is supposed to be fair, which makes you look immature and naïve. If you don't want to make yourself look bad, you could say, "I noticed that you assigned Ann that big project I was hoping for. Would you mind telling me what went into that decision? I'd like to know why you thought I wasn't a good fit, so that I can work on improving those skills."
每个人都知道生活本来就是不公平的。说不公平表明你认为生活应该是公平的,这只能让你显得不成熟和天真。如果你不想把自己置于那么糟糕的境地,你可以说,“我注意到您让安负责一个大项目,实际上我也想做。请问您介意告诉我是什么让您做出这样的决定吗?我想要知道您觉得我哪里还不够好,以便我进一步改进。”
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