这种交谈是非常怪异的。你和那个人之间没什么关系,就像我和这位女士一样,我们俩都知道很可能这一辈子只会和对方说这么一回话。你们会相遇,简单地聊聊工作或天气,然后分开,再然后,在相当长的一段时间里,过着各自的日子,至死也不会再交谈。
Our conversation quickly fell into the usual rut: What do you do oh that's cool here's what I do wow okay. She said she worked at a small museum that contained the papers and various artsy artifacts of some deceased rich guy (I can't even remember which one). Without even thinking about it, I asked, “What's your least favorite piece in the collection?” Something shifted in the conversation. She said something like, “Nobody's ever asked me that. People always ask what my favorite piece is.” I mentally high-fived myself, usually an awkward person who does not thrive in small-talk scenarios, for having at least thrown things off their usual course.
我们的对话也很快陷入了惯常的套路:“你是做什么的呀!”“真棒!”“我是做这个的”“哇,真好!”她说她在一个小博物馆工作,馆里收藏了某位过世富豪(我甚至想不起是谁了)的文字和各种各样的手工艺品。我想都没想就问道:“你最不喜欢哪件作品?”这场谈话的氛围变了。她好像接着说:“从来没有人问过我这个,大家一般都问我最喜欢哪件作品。”我在心里给自己点了个赞,因为我通常是个不擅长聊天的人,今天至少说了点别人想不到的话。
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