Many people aren't born with good listening skills. Even those who are great listeners sometimes engage in behaviors that make them appear to not be paying attention. The following tips will help you learn how to be an active listener as well as look like one:
很多人并不是天生就具有良好的聆听技能,甚至那些优秀的聆听者,他们的言行举行有时也会让人觉得他们心不在焉。下面这些提示,能帮助你学习成为一个名副其实的、积极的聆听者。
1.Maintain Eye Contact: When you are looking someone in the eye, you have no choice but to pay attention. And there will be no question about whether you are.
1.眼神交流:当你看着对方眼睛时,你只能集中注意力,甚至你是否有在认真听,都无关紧要。
2.Don't Interrupt the Speaker: Save your questions and comments until the speaker finishes talking and you are able to digest his or her words.
2.不要打断说话者:保留你的问题和评论,待对方说完,你消化理解后,再提出来。
3.Sit Still: Fidgeting makes you look bored.
3.静坐:烦躁不安说明你觉得对方的话很无聊。
4.Nod Your Head: This indicates to the speaker that you are taking in the information he or she is conveying.
4.点头:这一动作表明你正领会对方所传达的信息。
5.Be Attentive to Non-Verbal Cues: Paying attention to what the speaker doesn't say is as important as being attentive to his or her words. Look for non-verbal cues such as facial expressions and posture to get the full gist of what information the speaker is conveying.
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