为自己的兄弟姐妹铺路,这意味着长子长女要较早地学着承担一些严肃的责任。《手足效应:兄弟姐妹间的关系告诉了我们什么》的作者杰弗里•克鲁杰表示,长子长女倾向于成为更加关注家庭忠诚和传统成就的人。因此,他们看上去更加顺从,有责任感。
3. They might be more successful.
3. 他们也许会更成功。
Not only do eldest children perform better in school, they also might be more successful in the professional world. According psychologist and New York University adjunct professor Ben Dattner, firstborns are achievement-oriented and eager to please their parents. Research also suggests they tend to dominate their younger siblings as an authority figure of sorts, making them acutely prepared to take on leadership roles in the professional world.
长子长女不仅会在学校表现得很好,他们也会在职场更加成功。根据纽约大学兼职教授、心理学家本•达特所述,长子长女以成就为导向,渴望取悦他们的父母。研究还表明,他们倾向于摆出权威姿态,“领导”自己的弟弟妹妹,这使他们在职场发挥领导作用时已经做出充分准备。
Plus, their parents perceive them to be more accomplished. Go figure.
此外,他们的父母认为他们应该更有本事,想想看吧。
4. Eldest children follow the rules.
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