但如果我们自己大量撒谎,就表示别人也在这么做。且尽管有些谎言无伤大雅,对生活也毫无影响,有些却不然。
Short of forcing someone to take a polygraph test, there are four indicators.
虽然不能强制别人做测谎测试,但有四种说谎迹象。
So, how to spot a liar?
那么,怎样辨别说谎者呢?
1. Third person
1. 第三人称
Someone who's lying will try to keep the self-references to a bare minimum.
说谎者会试图将自我指涉减到最低。
They use the third-person as a means of distancing themselves from the deception.
他们运用第三人称,使自己看起来没有在欺骗别人。
So, for example, instead of saying "I didn't do it" they might say "that didn't happen".
比如他们可能说“那并没有发生”,而不是“我没有做那件事”。
2. Being negative
2. 消极表述
Listen out for the sort of language someone you suspect is lying is using.
仔细听你怀疑在说谎的人使用的语言类型。
If they're using negative language, that's a good indicator as liars express a lot of negativity because they subconsciously feel bad about lying.
如果他们在使用消极的语言,就是很好的暗示。说谎者常用许多消极表达,因为潜意识里他们对撒谎行为感到惭愧。
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