Ever.

绝对不要。

9. Wit is sexier than a push-up bra.

9. 智慧比上托型内衣更能让你性感。

I am not going to sit here and pretend that a man doesn't have to find you attractive in order to date you. What I am saying is that focusing only on taking hot selfies and looking "sexy" is going to backfire. Yes, you get the initial spark of attention, but if you want to keep it, you'd better have something else to ignite a flame.

我不会假装男人想跟你约会时并不用觉得你很有魅力。我是想说，只在意如何拍好看的自拍、看起来性感，会适得其反的。没错，你起初能吸引对方眼球，但你若要保持这样的火花，最好是要有别的特质来点亮这团火才行。

10. Remember, this is your journey.

10. 记住，人生是你自己的旅程。

You are in this life and it is yours. You are the one who has to live with the decisions you make and the ones you don't. Loss is a very real thing in this life. You will lose people. You will lose opportunities. When this happens, will you regret not saying "I love you" or booking that trip or will you know you said everything you needed to say and took every chance you wanted to?

你主宰人生，主宰你自己的人生。你是那个对自己的决定付出代价的人。失去是生命中需要面对的现实，你会失去身边的人，失去机会……当这些发生的时候你会后悔没有说出那句“我爱你”、后悔没有预定那次旅行，还是会庆幸自己说出了每一句要说的话、把握了每一次想要的机会呢？

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