该论文的联合作者、加州大学伯克利分校的心理学教授罗伯特·利文森和退伍军人管理局皮吉特湾健康中心的博士后埃利斯·弗斯滕指出,这项研究得出的结论与现有理论相悖--该理论的观点是,积极的情绪在一段长久关系中会随着时间的推移渐渐消退。
However, they align nicely with other recent longitudinal studies that show a U-shaped pattern of happiness in lengthy marriages. The questions of how unions change, and what triggers different twists and turns, are not settled.
不过,这个结论与近期其他纵向研究结果吻合,这些纵向研究显示,在漫长的婚姻中,人们的幸福感呈U形分布。但是这个U形会如何变化,以及是什么引发了它的曲折,这些问题还没有解决。
Importantly, jokes and gentle humor were not the only heroic behaviors that showed up in greater abundance in the marriages they followed.
重要的是,在他们跟踪研究的婚姻中,那些丰富了整个生活的英勇行为远远不止开玩笑和幽默。
All the positive ways we can behave toward someone became more evident as the years passed, but primarily humor, enthusiasm, and validation (actively listening to and understanding your partner). Criticisms dropped off, as did the truly toxic, divorce-courting habits like stonewalling. Men demonstrated less anger, and women less contempt.
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