可悲的是,很多直男在赞美女性的时候总是带着些许敌意或者不情愿的语气,这其实是心理防御机制在搞鬼。
Remember, the purpose of a compliment is to make somebody feel better about themselves. Do it with a smile on your face and in a pleasant tone: don’t say it as if you had a gun to your head.
记住,赞美是为了让对方自我感觉更良好,脸上带笑、语气愉快是最好的,不要给人不情不愿的感觉。
People don’t notice what you’re saying as much as the tone you’re saying it in, so a good compliment is completely wasted if it’s delivered poorly.
很多时候,人们会更多注意他人说话的语调,而不是内容。所以,如果赞美的好话不能好好地说,那还不如不说。
Finally, remember how powerful compliments can be
最后,记住赞美的力量是强大的
Ask most people and they’ll tell you: yes, they remember the best compliment they ever received. Even if it was five years ago, in the club loo and it was a drunk compliment from another girl.
如果你去问一下,很多人都会告诉你:他们记得自己收到过的最好的赞美。即便那些赞美来自5年前、发生在一个俱乐部厕所间或是另一个女孩在醉酒状态下说出来的,它也仍然有力量。
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