与另一半家庭相处不融洽的并非只有瓦内莎一人。加州物理治疗师朱莉与她未婚夫的亲戚存在文化差异。"一方面,他们善解人意、十分慷慨。另一半方面,他们有着非常不同的传统宗教背景,所以他们的世界观、观点和想法都和我存在差异,"她说道。"因为我和他们不常见,所以我没把它当一回事儿。通常我都会退缩、表现得十分礼貌,表达自己的方式也和在家人或朋友面前不一样,也许正因如此,我们才没有那么亲密吧。"
According to Megan Fleming, PhD, a New York City-based relationship therapist, it's common to have a challenging relationship with your partner's extended family. "We all have an ideal of what we imagine it should be like to grow our family and we hope that our in-laws will offer support and have our back," she says. "But for many reasons, that doesn't always happen."
纽约市情感治疗师梅根·弗莱明博士表示,与另一半的大家庭相处时具有挑战性是很常见的。"关于如何发展我们的家庭,我们都是有理想状态的,我们希望我们的公婆能提供支持,"她说道。"但是由于各种原因,这种情况并不常见。"
Because no one wants to go through life dreading holidays and get-togethers, we asked Fleming to give us advice on the best ways to handle fraught relationships with your partner's parents (or siblings or cousins or grandparents). Read on for the most common problems people face, plus how to handle each one.
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