I know that many other women have had their vaginas explained to them, because for the past 25 years my career has been dedicated to treating vaginal and vulvar problems. I have listened to women with completely normal exams weep that they have been told that they do not smell or taste correctly. That they are too wet, or too loose, or too gross.

我知道，其他很多女性也遇到过男人向她们解释阴道的情况，因为在过去的25年里，我的事业就是致力于治疗阴道和外阴问题。一些检验完全正常的女人向我哭诉说，她们被告知自己阴道的气味和味道不对。它们太湿了，太松了，或者太恶心了。

These women all shared something: They were told these things by men. While I admit this is anecdotal data, my years of listening to secret shame about healthy vaginas and vulvas seems to suggest it is largely, if not entirely, male partners who exploit vaginal and vulvar insecurities as a weapon of emotional abuse and control.

这些女人有一个共同点：那些话都是男人们告诉她们的。我承认这些都是道听途说的数据，但这么多年来我听到的关于健康阴道和外阴的秘密羞耻感似乎表明，将女性对阴道和外阴的不安全感用作情感虐待和控制的武器的，大多——甚至全部——是她们的男性伴侣。

But it was the Vicks VapoRub that put me over the edge.

不过，最让我受不了的是维克斯达姆膏(Vicks VapoRub)。

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