9. 告诉孩子,不良的身体接触也可能感觉不错。
Many parents and books talk about “good touch and bad touch,” but this can be confusing because often these touches do not hurt or feel bad. I prefer the term “secret touch,” as it is a more accurate depiction of what might happen.
很多家长和书籍谈论“好的接触和坏的接触”,但这可能会让人困惑,因为这种接触经常不会造成伤害,也不会让人感到不舒服。我更倾向于使用“秘密接触”这种说法,这能更准确地描述发生了什么。
10. Tell your child that these rules apply even with people they know and even with another child.
10. 告诉孩子,即便对自己认识的人,甚至是其他孩子,这些规则也同样适用。
This is an important point to discuss with your child. When you ask a young child what a “bad guy” looks like they will most likely describe a cartoonish villain. You can say something like, “Mommy and daddy might touch your private parts when we are cleaning you or if you need cream — but no one else should touch you there. Not friends, not aunts or uncles, not teachers or coaches. Even if you like them or think they are in charge, they should still not touch your private parts.”
和孩子谈论这一点很重要。当你问幼儿坏人长啥样,他们很可能会描述一个卡通片里的大坏蛋。你可以这样和孩子说:“当你洗澡或者需要擦油时,爸爸妈妈可能会触摸你的隐私部位,但其他人不能这么做。朋友、阿姨、叔叔、老师、或者教练都不可以。即便你喜欢他们,或者认为他们管着你,他们也不能触摸你的隐私部位。”
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