教会孩子留意失败主义的想法。当有个声音悄悄地说“你不擅长数学”时,他们可以给这个声音起一个名字,例如麦克。让他们再选择一个不同的名字,代表一个肯定他们擅长的某项活动的声音。然后说:“这不是你。这是麦克在找你麻烦。”
3. Dress for success
穿戴“成功服饰”
Have your kids choose special learning attire, such as a thinking hat or a pair of glasses, that they wear only while studying. Researchers at Northwestern University found that even adults are influenced by their clothing. In a study published in the journal Child Development, researchers found that young children persevered longer when they pretended to be a superhero.
让孩子挑一套特别的学习服饰,例如一顶思考帽,或一副眼镜,只在学习时穿戴。美国西北大学的研究人员发现,即使是成年人们也会受到所穿服饰的影响。研究人员在《儿童发展》期刊发表的一篇文章中说,当孩子们假装成超级英雄时,他们坚持学习的时间更长。
4. Let school be the bad guy
让学校当坏人
If negotiating homework becomes toxic, it is time to contact the child’s teacher or school counselor. Jennifer Goodstein, a sixth-grade teacher in Bethesda, Md. , says she tells parents to stop and write her an email when their child melts down. “We can be the bad guys and say, ‘Okay, Brendan, you were fighting with your mother, so you’re going to do the work here,’ ” she says.
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