But don’t do the work for them. As Wormeli says, “What’s the greater gift we can give our kids, that they learn it and it goes into long-term memory, or that they get a false sense of competency?”
但不要替他们做作业。正如沃姆利所说:“我们能给孩子的更好的礼物,是他们自己学会,形成长期记忆,还是他们对能力形成错误认识?”
9. Identify role models to build grit
树立行为榜样,增强毅力
Parents can ask kids to name people they admire, whether they are professional athletes or favorite writers. When the child wants to give up, ask what that role model would do.
父母可以让孩子说出他们崇拜的人,不管是职业运动员还是喜欢的作家。当孩子想要放弃时,问问他们,自己的榜样会怎么做。
10. Go easy on the pressure
不要施加太大压力
Too much pressure causes kids to push back. “At an age when you’re just starting to discover who you are, you’re already being told who you need to be,” Jovanovic says. “When the gap between who you want to be and who your parents need you to be is big, you start rebelling.”
太大的压力会让孩子退却。(心理学家)约万诺维奇说:“当孩子还处在发现自己是谁的年龄阶段时候,已经被告知需要成为什么样的人。当孩子想成为的人与父母需要他成为的人之间存在巨大差距时,他会逐渐变得叛逆。”
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