对有些人来说，和人聊天简直是一种煎熬。他们对任何交流的机会都唯恐避之不及。一旦碰到躲不过的场合，就开始坐立不安，拼命找话题却又想不出来，或者好不容易接上一句，结果接了还不如不接。而对于身边的人来说，和这些“话题终结者”聊天更是如同上刑一般。

尬聊不仅会给对方带来诸多苦恼，也限制了自己的社交能力。要解决这个问题，你必须要清楚这一点：

The key to being a better conversationalist is to be an attention-giver rather than an attention-getter. This means you begin to concentrate more on the person you're speaking with, and on gratifying their needs instead of your own.

想成为侃侃而谈的人，关键是给予关注而不是获得关注。这意味着你要把更多的精力集中在和你讲话的人身上，满足他们的需求而不是自己的需求。

在此前提下，记住以下5个谈话技巧，就能打破尴尬的沉默，掌握聊天的艺术。

Use People's Names More

多说对方的名字

We are more likely to be in tune with others when they say our name. Dale Carnegie, an author of public speaking and interpersonal skills books, previously said our names are “the sweetest and most important sound” to us. In conversation, you can use this to your advantage by asking for their name, and then dropping their name occasionally throughout the conversation later on.

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