称赞对方的好处是通过多加称赞老板的耐心,使老板更倾向于对自己进行积极的评价,而不是对你产生消极的看法。他/她会对自己说:“对,我是个有耐心的人,不是吗?其实这是我作为好老板和善解人意的人最自豪的一个品质。毕竟向员工展示我有耐心这个优点也不错。”
Extra, extra, extra emphasis on the idea that one uses this on rare occurrences of being late - it is not meant to be for everyday use.
重点、重点、重点强调一下这只适合偶尔迟到的场合,不是每天都能用。
For those who are curious, this is Kevin Luo’s real-life example of using this:
有些人很好奇,下面就讲一个我自己运用这一技巧的实例:
A few months ago, I was late to a meeting with my manager for the first time due to someone dropping onto the tracks of the public train in Chicago. As such, the trains were paused from operating for a lengthy period of time that morning.
几个月前我跟经理开会第一次迟到,因为芝加哥有人掉火车道上了,导致那天早上火车中断了很久。
August 15th, 2017: A man’s body was found on the CTA tracks, pausing all CTA operations.
2017年8月15日:芝加哥捷运铁路上发现了一具男尸,中断了芝加哥交通管理局所有交通。
This happened 1 month after I had just started working at the office full-time. As you might imagine, it’s extremely important to have a good reputation as a punctual employee.
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