假如你正在和一个难打交道的人聊天,而你非常想闭嘴走人。这个“停滞期”语句会很管用——至少它能把对方的气势灭到最低。
“Sorry you feel that way.”
“很抱歉让你有这样的感觉。”
“That’s your opinion.”
“好吧,这是你的看法。”
“Oh.”
“哦。”
“Perhaps you’re right.”
“或许你是对的。“
If you just repeat these phrases over and over during the conversation, eventually the other person will give up trying to get you to join the argument.
假如你不停重复这几句话,最终对方一定会放弃和你争吵的,哈哈。
Difficult people want to engage you: don’t fall for that trap. Listen to what you’re saying: are you trying to justify, argue, defend, or explain your position? If you are, stop. If you don’t, the conversation will just continue to go around in circles. You will never change the mind of a difficult person—otherwise you probably wouldn’t be seeing them as “difficult.”
那些难打交道的人,最爱做的事就是让你卷入争执中。小心这个陷阱。听听此时自己的嘴巴在说些啥:是不是正在试图证明某事、或争论、或辩解、或解释自己的处境?如果是,请立即停止。因为如果你不停下来的话,这个对话将永远在一个圆里绕啊绕,毫无结果。因为你是没有办法改变对方这类人的想法的。否则的话,你也不会给他们贴上 “难打交道”的标签了。
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