如果说婚礼是激情四射的百老汇首演之夜，婚姻则是继开幕夜之后成百上千场耗时又乏善可陈的演出。夫妻该如何在风风雨雨、锅碗瓢盆的日常生活中保持最初恋爱时的美好呢?

 

 

1. Pick Right

选对人

People often couple for the wrong reasons----convenience, expectations, and pressure to have kids. Other common reasons can be conflation of lust and love, fear of being alone, or even simple security. A "deep period of self-discovery" before jumping into marriage is advocated. The must-haves reasons to marry someone includes alignedgoals, sexuality, and spirituality.

人们常常因错误的缘由走到一起----因为图方便、有期许或者生养小孩的压力。其他理由包括爱欲交织、害怕孤单、甚至简简单单只为寻求安全感。现在主张奔向婚姻前能深度自我发现“。结婚的理由必须是有共同的目标、情欲和精神需求。

2. Treat Each Other Right

好好对待彼此

That kindness and respect come up frequently when people are asked about the most essential elements of a healthy marriage. What all the respondents' comments boileddown to, at bottom, was friendship. Every trait cited for how a person should treat his or her partner was -- not coincidentally -- the definition of how you should treat a friend.

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