Contrary to what fairy tales may tell you, relationships take work.
和童话故事描绘的截然相反,感情是需要经营的。
So we collected some of the best social science findings about what makes them last.
我们收集了一些有关经营感情的最佳社科研究发现。
1. If you wait until you're 23 to commit, you're less likely to get divorced.
如果等到23岁再考虑结婚,离婚几率更小。
A 2014 University of Pennsylvania study found that Americans who cohabitate or get married at age 18 have a 60% divorce rate, whereas people who waited until the more mature age of 23 have a divorce rate of about 30%.
2014年宾夕法尼亚大学的一项研究发现,18岁就同居或结婚的美国人离婚率为60%,然而那些等到23岁更成熟的时候才选择结婚的离婚率约为30%。
2. The “in love” phase lasts about a year.
“热恋”阶段通常持续一年左右。
The honeymoon phase with its “high levels of passionate love” and “intense feelings of attraction and ecstasy, as well as an idealization of one's partner”, doesn't last forever, according to Monmouth University psychologist Gary W. Lewandowski Jr.
蒙莫斯大学心理学家盖里•W•勒万多维斯基表示,充满“高度激情的爱”、“强烈的吸引力和狂喜的感觉,同时对配偶理想化”的蜜月期并不会永远持续下去。
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