This “selftalk” helps us motivate ourselves, remember things, solve problems, and calm ourselves down.Be aware, though, that as much as 77% of selftalk tends to be negative.So in order to stay positive, we should only speak words of encouragement to ourselves.We should also be quick to give_ourselves_a_pat_on_the_back.The next time you finish a project, do well in a test, or finally clean your room, join me in saying “Good job!”
Often, words come out of our mouths without us thinking about the effect they will have.But we should be aware that our words cause certain responses in others.For example, when returning an item to a store, we might use warm, friendly language during the exchange.And the clerk will probably respond in a similar manner.Or harsh(刻薄的) and critical language will most likely cause the clerk to be defensive.
Words possess power because of their lasting effects.Many of us regret something we once said.And we remember unkind words said to us! Before speaking, we should always ask ourselves: Is it true? Is it loving? Is it needed?If what we want to say doesn’t pass this test, then it’s better left unsaid.
Words possess power: both positive and negative.Those around us receive encouragement when we speak positively.We can offer hope, build selfesteem(自尊) and motivate others to do their best.Negative words destroy all those things.Will we use our words to hurt or to heal? The choice is ours.
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