让他们有所参与
Sit down as a family and discuss responsibilities and rewards together. Being part of the process can help kids feel as though they have some ownership over their chores, as opposed to simply being bossed around.
一家人正儿八经的坐下来,谈谈责任和奖励问题。参与到这一过程中会让孩子产生这样的感觉--好像他们也有自己应该承担的家务,而不是被大人们呼来喝去。
Establish a Reward System
建立奖励制度
Some families find that a chore chart with a reward system works really well. For younger children, fill a prize box with small items from the dollar section at Target. Then let them choose a prize at the end of each week for a job well done. If your kids are older, they can work for a weekly allowance, screen time, or trip to Starbucks.
有些家庭发现,注明奖励的家务活图表十分奏效。对于小一点的宝宝而言,可以把奖励盒装满Target连锁超市的一元区礼品。然后,若他们表现很棒,可以在周末的时候让他们选择一份礼物。对于年纪稍大的孩子而言,可以让他们在每周津贴、屏幕时间和星巴克之间做出选择。
Set a Goal
设定目标
Don't want a whole chart and reward system? Try setting one goal at a time. Let them earn that new toy, new iPhone, or whatever their must-have item is.
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