As I recently celebrated another year of life and am entering a new phase of mid-life (whatever that is) I began to contemplate the lessons that I would pass on to my younger self.
最近刚过完生日,人到中年,人生进入了一个新的阶段,我开始思索年轻时候的我学到的经验教训。
Whether you are young or young at heart, it is never too late to change — or incorporate some new (and better) practices into your daily life. Here are 10 wise lessons that I wish I knew when I was younger:
不管你是真的风华正茂,或是心态年轻,改变,或让自己的生活吸收一些新的更好的尝试,永远为时不晚。下面是我希望我在年轻的时候就懂得的10个道理:
1. Don’t worry about what other people think of you.
走自己的路,让别人去说吧。
I used to worry too much what others thought of me, of my decisions and of my actions. Eventually, I came to realize that if you’re wasting too much time seeking validation, respect or approval from others, then you won’t have time to accomplish all that you desire. Everyone has an opinion, but in reality other’s opinions of you are based more on their history and perceptions than anything you’re actually doing.
我总是会太过担心别人对我的看法,他们会怎么看待我的决定和行为?我后来意识到,如果你把时间浪费在寻求别人的认可、尊重和支持,那你就根本无暇做你自己想做的事。人们都会有自己的看法,但实际上其他人对你的看法更多地基于他们自身的历史和认知,而并不是你实际在做的事情。
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