而且谈论自己感觉很好。哈佛大学(Harvard University)神经系统科学家所做的一系列实验显示,我们大脑的“奖励区”──也就是对食物和性等“主要奖励”做出反应的区域──在我们谈论自己的时候会被激活。这项研究演示,我们30%到40%的谈话时间都花在谈论自己上。该研究的重点并不是炫耀而是自我表露,研究报告已于5月份发表在《美国国家科学院院刊》(Proceeding of the National Academy of Sciences)上。
In one experiment, the researchers offered people small amounts of money to answer questions about themselves or others. They generally were willing to forgo earnings in order to talk about themselves.
在其中一项实验中,研究人员给人们提供少量的钱,让他们回答有关自己或别人的问题。他们一般都愿意为了谈论自己而放弃钱。
Unfortunately, some people can't seem to tell the difference between sharing positive information that others might actually want to know and flat-out crowing. Let me help: Bragging involves comparison, whether stated or implied. 'It's being overbearing and showing excessive pride,' says Ms. Hanks.
遗憾的是,有些人似乎分不清分享其他人真正想知道的正面信息和不顾一切炫耀的区别。我来帮忙区分吧:炫耀里面有对比,有的是直接对比,有的是暗示。汉克斯说,炫耀时态度傲慢,会表现出过度的自豪感。
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