索拉斯说,当他还是个孩子时,他母亲就把他交给祖母抚养,而祖母在他16岁时去世了。索拉斯说,“然后我开始成为一个爱焦虑的人。”他的分离焦虑症在几年前进一步恶化。他有糖尿病,视力减退;他妻子做过膝盖手术,还动过纠正喉部狭窄的手术。现在,索拉斯正被自己成为妻子负担这个想法所困扰。为了在她出门时分散自己的注意力,他计划写一本书,内容是关于防止工作场所暴力的。
Rosita Alvarez, a 45-year-old artist in Spicewood, Texas, grew up as a so-called Air Force brat, moving with her family every two years. She has vivid childhood memories of writing letters to old friends and never hearing back. 'I learned at 9 that you can lose people you love,' she says. She was 36 and married for 10 years with four children younger than 10, when her husband died of a heart attack.
罗西塔•阿尔瓦雷斯(Rosita Alvarez)今年45岁,是一名艺术家,家住得克萨斯州斯派斯伍德(Spicewood)。她小时候是个所谓的“空军小孩”,每两年跟着家人搬家一次。她清晰地记得小时写信给老朋友,但从来没有回音。她说,“我在九岁时知道,你会失去你所爱的人。”当她36岁,结婚满10年时,她丈夫死于心脏病,当时她的四个孩子都还不满10岁。
She keeps voice messages from each of her children on her cellphone. 'I want to have their voice with me as long as I can, in case they die,' she says. She keeps her phone with her, day and night. When it rings, she often imagines the worst.
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