无论是什么理由让他/她如此野蛮无礼，你也不需要去强调人家的错误。比起同样粗鲁的行为，用一句友好的问候、一个善解人意的笑容作为回应，更能帮助他们。

2. Considering foes as friends

视敌为友

A friend looks after your own good, is attached to you by affection, and entertains other sentiments of esteem. On the other hand, a foe is someone who isn't interested in your well-being.

朋友会照顾你的利益，因为彼此的情感而重视支持你，认真对待你的情绪。相反，敌人不会在意你的幸福。

Yet some students view their teachers as enemies. However, a student's success in school partly depends on the teacher's effectiveness in the classroom. Instead of being an enemy, a teacher who corrects you and helps you to achieve can be the best friend you ever had.

有些学生把他们的老师视为敌人。但是一个学生在学校里的成功部分是取决于老师在课堂上的成效。不要把他们当敌人，帮助你纠正错误取得成功的老师应该是你拥有的最好的朋友！

This kind of thinking, along with a little attitude adjustment, helps you to convert foes to friends, and both of you are better off.

这种思维方式伴随你态度上的转变，会帮助你将敌化友，而你们双方也会感觉舒服很多。

3. Making friends by being an optimist

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