Mr. Nelson's response? 'Bees sting,' he said. 'Why on earth would I want to bring thousands of them into my backyard?'

纳尔逊的反应呢？ “蜜蜂会蜇人”，他说，“到底为什么我要把成千上万的蜜蜂带进自己的后院儿？”

Relationship researchers have long believed that couples who try new interests and recreational pursuits together─especially active ones─are happier. Shared experiences bring novelty to a relationship and help prevent boredom and complacency. New experiences also can activate the brain's reward system, flooding it with powerful neurochemicals related to pleasure and bonding─the same circuits triggered when a person first falls in love

男女关系研究者长期以来都认为，那些试着一起培养新的兴趣爱好、共同参与新鲜娱乐活动的夫妻──尤其是那些主动这样做的伴侣──会更幸福。共同的经历会给一段感情带来新鲜感，还有助于避免无聊和自满。全新的体验还能激发大脑的奖励系统，让大脑充满与乐趣和依恋相关的强大的神经化学物质──当一个人第一次坠入爱河的时候，大脑中同样的回路会被激活。

There is a big caveat, though: To give your relationship a boost with a new hobby, both of you will need to enjoy it.

但有一点要特别注意：想要通过培养一个新的爱好来增进你们之间的感情，两个人都需能乐在其中

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