Compromise
学会妥协
Living with anyone, whether it is your parents, a spouse, or a roommate, requires compromise. Discuss what your parents’ expectations are compared to your own, and meet in the middle. “Work around the things you believe [your parents] can’t or won’t change,” says Newman. Be creative and present options for solutions to conflicts that you don’t see eye-to eye on. “If you want changes, you will have to ask for them calmly, not in an authoritative way,” says Newman. “Let’s say that you don’t want your parents in your room or cleaning up after you, tell them that you will tend to those things. Or explain that you will do your own laundry.”
跟别人相处,无论对方是你的父母,配偶,亦或者室友,都需要妥协。要跟父母交流一下彼此的愿想,然后双方再折中妥协。“尝试努力去改变你认为父母会坚持的意见,”纽曼说。要灵活应对冲突,双方达不到共识的时候,要给出建设性意见。“如果你想有所改变,那就冷静地跟他们谈谈,而不是特立独行,”纽曼说。“告诉父母你不希望他们进入你的房间,也不想他们帮你打扫卫生,告诉他们你自己会打扫。或者向他们好好解释你的衣服自己会洗。”
Lend a Hand
互相帮助
Both Newman and White suggest assisting with household responsibilities to create a pleasant living situation. “Young people who move back home must help support their parents financially and with the household responsibilities, i.e. chores [and] unexpected expenses,” says White.
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