关于前任不要再说的9件事_BEC初级作文

关于前任不要再说的9件事

Obviously, when you end things with your a-hole, jerky ex, all you wanna do is talk about what a jerky a-hole he is. But before you launch into a tirade about his emotional unavailability, check out these expert tips on the etiquette of what not to say after your relationship is dunzo-at least for your own sake.

当你跟极品前任分手后，显然最想做的莫过于到处谈论他到底是怎样一个极品。但是，在你唾沫四溅地数落他情感无能前，还是先看看下面这些内行建议，注意分手后哪些事不该再提——就当是为你自己好吧。

关于前任不要再说的9件事1

1. He was broke.

他是个穷屌丝。

Everyone has a different lifestyle and just because he couldn't match yours, that doesn't mean he's a bad guy-or even cheap. Don't sound high maintenance by complaining about his lack of funds.

每个人都有各自生活方式，不要因为他跟你不在同一档次，就狭隘认为他很挫或很穷。不要抱怨人家是屌丝，搞得自己多么“白富美”似的。

2. Everything he thought/did/said was terrible.

他简直一无是处。

Even though you broke up, you shouldn't systematically annihilate of every good thing he did or every good time you had. If someone brings up a great memory of the two of you, take a deep breath and avoid the urge to say, "Yeah, but what about the time he did [insert something horrible here]." And definitely don't badmouth your ex to the max in front of your new man. If your current BF thinks you may still have strong-even strongly negative-feelings for your past guy, he may wonder if you've actually moved on.