Historically courtship has revolved around "a man proving to a woman that he values her," says psychotherapist Tina B. Messina. In the days before women were CEOs and doctors, a woman would lose all of her wealth to her husband once she was married. So it was imperative that a man proved to both the woman and her family that he could take care of her. Hence a man paying and providing for a woman.
精神治疗师蒂娜说过,有史以来,求偶都是围绕着“男人如何向女人表达自己有多看重她”而开展的。在女人没有资格和男人获得同样的社会地位的时代,女人一旦嫁人,就会失去的财富,所以,男人要用各种方法向让女人和她的家人证明一旦女人嫁给他,会受到很好的照顾。这也是男人为什么为女人买单的历史原因。
But now that it's 2013 and not 1952, where does that leave us? Many women, myself included, do not need a man's moula. The real problem is not that men are spending too much money on dates; it's that they're not dating wisely. In the age of online dating and the gaggle of choices out there, truer words were never said. Men waste money and energy dating the wrong people. "They don't have purpose or focus, and they go out with folks who possess dealbreakers — simply because they're not taking the dating process seriously." For these men, it's not about the money either. By datingonly people they're truly interested in and who have the same goals and desires, men can save time and energy.
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