但是现在已经是2013年了,而不是1952年。我们的传统变了吗?很多女人,包括我自己,并不予要男人养活。其实真正的问题时男人在约会时花了太多的钱,而在婚恋网上的选择很多,有诚意的却很少。“一些男人自己也没定性,在网上也会那些没有诚意长期交往的女孩——原因很简单,他们自己都没有将这次约会看得很重要。”对于这类男人,钱也许也不是问题。然而,和有想要着认真交往的女孩约会可以节约时间和精力。
Having dated online myself, I can certainly attest to that fact. Though I stated clearly on my profile that I was looking for a longterm relationship, there was no shortage of men who took me out with less than serious intentions. Men who go on date after date hoping that just one of them will "stick". It's not just men who do this; I've been guilty of it too. I've gone out with guys who possessed way too many of my dealbreakers — believed Top 40 was good music, didn't vote and owned cats — because I hoped that if I was more open-minded I might meet the right guy. It wasn't until I focused on quality not quantity that I met the right guy.
我自己也有网上交友的经历,当我在我的个人介绍里写清楚了我要寻找的是长期伴侣时,任然有很多不是很严肃对待约会的男人来约我出去。很多男人觉一次又一次的约会总会有合适的出现,当然有这种想法的不仅仅是男人,我也曾经忏悔自己对约会的不严肃。我曾和许多不严肃对待约会的男人约会过。很多人都有共性——喜欢音乐、不参加选举和养猫。我当时觉得,我也许更开放就有机会遇到我的白马王子。 然而事实却不是这样的,我意识到质量比数量更重要。
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