善待朋友: 怎样经营你的友谊银行_BEC初级作文

善待朋友: 怎样经营你的友谊银行

假如你在友情中总是付出很多，可并不是总能获得你需要的回报，你能做些什么呢？从改变你付出的途径开始吧。参与义务慈善工作或帮助更不幸的人。你会享受到帮助他人的乐趣，并且从获得他人回报的期望中摆脱出来。

When making a new friend, pay attention early on to the other person's communal orientation. Does he ask about you and actually pay attention to your answer? Is she willing to do something you suggest doing, or work around your schedule? Not everyone is capable of giving at the same level. But if you are aware of who you are dealing with, you will be less likely to have expectations that won't be met.

此外，结交新朋友时，早些注意对方的公共取向度。他会问起你并真的会注意你的回答吗？她乐意去做你提议的事情或根据你的时间安排做些变通吗？每个人能付出的程度都不同。但是，如果你了解了你打交道的对象是什么样的人，你对其期望过高的可能性就会降低。

Finally, realize that not all relationships can be fixed -- and that's OK. Ultimately, you need to decide who is worthy of your friendship. Learning to have more balanced interactions will help your future relationships.