背后议论朋友和同事虽能赢得同盟,但却非常肤浅短暂。相信你也不喜欢和爱八卦的人做朋友。最后这些人甚至会发现,他们自己也会这样被人八卦,只好灰溜溜避开。八卦其实是一种软弱和不安的表现,八卦的人试图通过诋毁他人来膨胀自己。正直做人,别人会认为你比较公正。
4. Be helpful and dependable
帮助他人,值得信赖
If someone you know needs assistance that you’re able to provide with a minimum of inconvenience, offer it. The key term here is “minimum of inconvenience”. Doing favors for others that involve more time and trouble than they would for the person themselves comes across as desperation. Giving aid when you’re truly in a position to do so communicates a sincere interest in the welfare of others. As a side note, be sure to follow up on any commitments you make. The damage to your reputation is doubly harsh if people can’t count on your word.
如果身边有人向你求助,而你又确实方便帮忙,那就帮吧。当然,前提是这没有给你造成“一丁点不便”。同样的困境,帮助他人要耗费更多时间和精力。若你真的方便帮忙,对他人而言,那就是诚挚的关怀。另外,帮完后别忘了关注后续进展。要是没能帮成,那你的名誉可就岌岌可危了。
5. Be a “matchmaker”
做“媒人”
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