回应对方的言谈，并确保你的回应能让对方接受。采取积极的外交方式予以反馈，当然，前提是要诚实中肯。要知道，你到底是真心回应还是随意附和，别人是能看出来的。

3. Ask Open-Ended Questions

提出开放式问题

Open-ended questions require more than just a yes-or-no answer. Ask open-ended questions that encourage the other person to start discussing a topic in detail.

开放式问题所要求的回答远不止是或否，它鼓励对方详细谈起某个话题。

For example, ask, “What made you decide to pursue nursing?” Or, “How did you like living in Hawaii?” These questions really encourage another person to offer information about their story and they invite them to share their opinion.

比如，像“是什么让你决定从事护理的呢？”或“你为什么喜欢住在夏威夷？”之类的问题，可以引导对方讲述更多自己的故事和想法。

4. Wait for Your Turn to Talk

等轮到你讲话时再说

Whatever you do, don’t interrupt. Instead, wait patiently for your turn to talk. Interrupting is one of the quickest ways to shut down a conversation and irritate the other person.

千万别打断对方讲话，耐心等着，轮到你时再讲。插话最会扼杀聊天，甚至惹恼对方。

Show that you value what others are saying. Truly listen to what is being said rather than trying to think of what you will say next.

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