Meantime, try not to overreact to your wacky boss, Bernstein cautions. "People often respond so viscerally to an over-controlling boss because of their own inner teenager - you know, that voice inside that reacts to overbearing authority with, 'You're not the boss of me,' " he observes. "It's a sort of knee-jerk resistance to arbitrary or unreasonable control." That voice is louder in some folks than in others, he notes, but "I always counsel people not to let their inner teenager make career decisions for them." Noted.
与此同时,伯恩斯坦也警告说,不要对行为乖癖的老板反应过度。他说:“人们通常会比较感性地回应控制欲过强的老板,这是由于他们内心有一股叛逆精神——你知道的,就是面对专横的权威人士时,内心会发出一种反叛声音:你又不是我的老板!这是人们对蛮横无理管制的一种条件反射。”他还指出:“有些人内心的叛逆声音要比其他人强烈,但我常常忠告人们,不能让内心的叛逆精神左右自己的职业发展。”
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