AVOID GOSSIPING TO OTHERS
第四招:勿要八卦
This one is a biggie. Just avoid this, because if your roomie catches wind that you’re talking about her “bad habits” or how “annoying she is,” then I can promise you absolutely nothing will get resolved. If anything, it will only make the tension between the two of you worse.
这可是个大事儿。反正就别做,因为如果你室友捕风捉影发现你正在大谈她的“坏习惯”或是说她有多讨厌,我敢打包票什么问题都解决不了。如果能改变什么,估计只是使你们俩的关系变得更紧张、更糟糕。
OFFER UP A SOLUTION AND SAY THANK YOU
第五招:我有解决办法,谢谢你
Also very important. Don’t have a sit down without having a way to resolve the issue. If for some reason you can’t think of one, ask them for their thoughts or if there’s something you can do to help as well. Oh, and say thank you in regards to them being willing to sit down and hear you out! Thank you’s always make a big difference in the long run!
这点也很重要。如果你也没有解决办法,就别和室友坐下谈。如果由于种种原因,你也想不出解决办法,问问他们的想法,或者问问有什么你可以帮助的。哦,记得对他们愿意坐下、听你说完表示谢谢。“谢谢”从长远来看总是让事情有所不同!
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