第六招:记得别人的好
It sucks to have someone sit you down and tell you something you’re doing (whether intentionally or not) is bugging them to no end. After you talk about what is upsetting you, make sure to highlight something you appreciate about them or that they’re doing right…”Thanks for keeping the living room clear of your things after you’re done studying, but is there any way you could vacuum a little more often! It’ll lessen the load for us both!”
有人叫你坐下然后喋喋不休、没完没了的告诉你你所做的事情(不论故意与否)使他们很心烦,这是件很糟糕的事情。当你叙述过了是你难过的事情,一定要强调一下你对他们所做的其他事情的欣赏与感激,或是表扬他们做的对的事情……“很感谢你在学习之后把客厅收拾得那么干净,但是有没有可能你能用吸尘器清扫得再经常一点!这样可以减轻我们俩的负担!”
IF IT CONTINUES, APPROACH THE HOUSEHOLD (IF APPLICABLE)
第七招:如果还是不行,找其他房客(如果适用)
This is only if you live with more than one person. Because if something is affecting you, then it might be affecting the rest of your household too. Have a “house meeting” instead of a roommate meeting, and follow the same steps I discussed above!
这招只能在你和多人合住的时候才有用。因为如果某些事影响你,很有可能也影响了其他房客。既然和室友说不通,取而代之,开个“房客大会”,依然可以使用上述六招!
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