When All Else Fails…
如果所有都不奏效……
Sometimes, no matter how much you do, your roommate will still drive you crazy. When respecting, cleaning, and ground rules don’t get you where you want in your rooming situation, all is not lost, even if it seems like it. There’s still a certain amount of damage control that you can do.
有时,不管你做了多少,室友仍然让你抓狂。当尊重,整洁和基本规则都无法让你得到你想要的寝室状况,所有的都不管用,即便看起来如此,仍有一些破坏控制措施你可以采用。
Deal with it – There are just some things that you are going to have to get used to when living with another person. Sometimes, you just need to suck it up and deal with it. For the most part, the things that annoy you are minor things that you can put up with for just one year. If you have trouble keeping your annoyances under control, remember this quote from Robert Anton Wilson: “You are precisely as big as what you love and precisely as small as what you allow to annoy you.”
忍着—和别人同住,总有些事情要适应。有时,接受,忍着。大多数情况下,烦扰你的都是你可以忍受一年的微小事情。如果你控制不了烦躁,记住Robert Anton Wilson的这句话:你所爱之物有多大,你就有多大;你所烦之事有多小,你就有多小。
Talk to your roommate – Sit down and have a conversation with your roommate about the key things that really irritate you about the situation. Maybe he snores. Maybe she keeps the TV on while you do homework. Whatever it is, don’t yell and don’t accuse. Be calm and friendly and simply explain your situation. Focus on the big aspects. If you start nitpicking or start getting mean, the situation will get out of control, nothing will get solved, and you’ll both be angry. Also, if you’re going to talk to your roommate about issues you have with them, you need to be able to take the issues that they might have with you. Be flexible and willing to compromise.
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