Remember that pointing out your small mistakes is part of her job, and it may be as distasteful to her as it is to you. If the criticism is particularly difficult for you to hear, remember to breathe before you say anything. A deep breath or so, when done surrepitiously, can give you the strength to respond calmly. Then, if it's appropriate, defend yourself. If her criticism is just, nod as she speaks. Tell her, "Thank you for showing me how you would prefer this to be done/how this should be done/whatever." If she persists, or is talking to you about something for the Nth time, say, "This seems to be something that you want me to work on/I should work on. Are there any resources available to help me improve?"
记住,她给你指出失误是她的工作。也许她和你一样都不喜欢这样。如果批评的话实在难以接受,那么,你在回答之前记得深吸一口气。偷偷做一下深吸气可以让你更冷静地应对她的批评。接下来,如果有充分的理由,就为自己辩护。如果她的批评中肯,她一边批评,你要点头表示赞同。然后,对她说:“谢谢您给我提出指导意见/告诉我要怎么做这件事。”如果她还要继续,或者不断重复一件事情,你可以说:“您似乎希望我可以/应该这样完成。有什么方法可以让我改进吗?”
Make Your Boss Love You When You're Swamped and He Wants You to Do More
获得青睐时机三:已经负荷工作,但上司还希望你再多做时
【找准时机:5招让你轻松获得上司青睐】相关文章:
★ 双语诗歌:初恋的感觉 Feelings Of The First Love
最新
2020-09-15
2020-09-15
2020-09-15
2020-09-15
2020-09-15
2020-09-15