Jackpot moments
“中奖时刻”
Major General Jessica Wright, the most senior woman in the US military today, is utterly warm, charming and not scared to embrace a feminine style. She’s also crisp and assured and not somebody who appreciates dithering. Over her long military career, she’s suffered from “spaghetti nerves” like most of us, and has had plenty of confidence building moments becoming a leader in such masculine world. One confidence tip she offered was an early discovery: some of your most challenging moments can be turned to your advantage. Early in her career, one superior told her that he didn’t much like females in the military. “About 500 things went through my head,” she says, “but what I told him was ‘Sergeant, this is your chance to get over that.’” Her decision to seize that potentially fraught moment paid off. She gained his respect, and she felt her confidence soar.
杰西卡·怀特少将,也是当今美国军队中军衔最高的女性,是一个极其热心且富有魅力的人,她并不担心自己的风格女性化。同时她也并不喜欢优柔寡断,相反她十分行事果决。在她漫长的军事生涯中,她就像我们中的大部分人一样经历了“迷茫和混乱”的时刻;在这个男人的世界里成长为一个领导人,她也经历了许多树立起信心的瞬间。她告诉我们她很早以前发现的一条树立信心的窍门:一些你人生中遇到过的最具挑战性的瞬间,可能反过来成为你的优势。在她事业的早期,曾有一位上级告诉她他并不喜欢参军的女人。“我一下子觉得脑袋里很混乱,”她说,“但是我还是告诉他‘中士,这正是你克服这种心理的好时机。’”对于这种可能造成造成尴尬的时刻,她作出的这种迎难而上的决定最终赢得了他的尊重,也增强了自己的信心。
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