你为什么还是单身？这不是一种病态_BEC初级作文

你为什么还是单身？这不是一种病态

1. 乐意单身。这些单身人士完全满足他们的生活方式，他们没有感觉到有需要谈恋爱。事实上，他们是说他们对于没有一场认真的恋爱关系而感到愉快。他们可能就是我们称之为有一颗单身心的人。

2. Accustomed singles: They are similar in many ways to the happy singles, but instead of saying that they are happy with their single lives, they say, “I’m used to being single.” They don’t mean that in any resigned or negative sense. As Czernecka explains, “They have been alone for a while and treat it as their natural state – they do not want to destroy the harmony of their life, or give up their rituals and everyday pleasures for a partner. All emotional needs, the sense of being accepted and of help in everyday life are provided by their family and friends, which is why they say that they ‘do not need anyone else.’”

2. 习惯单身。他们在很多方面与乐意单身的人相似。但不是说他们乐意单身，是说他们习惯单身。他们并不意味着是顺从或是消极的观念。就泽内卡的解释来说，他们暂时是孤独的并把孤独作为自然状态，他们不想要为了另一半摧毁他们这种和谐的生活或是放弃他们的老规矩和乐趣。所有情感上的需要，日常生活中的接受与帮助是由他们的家庭和朋友提供的，这就是为什么他们说不需要其他人。

3. Hurt singles: They have had bad experiences with romantic relationships in the past and do not want to be hurt again. (The Carly Simon lyrics, “haven’t got time for the pain,” sound relevant here.)