12年婚姻我们如何顺利度过七年之痒_BEC初级作文

12年婚姻我们如何顺利度过七年之痒

下班后早回家，找保姆代孩子，自己和妻子出去约会，哪怕自己休假也都是很美好的时刻。两个人生活在一起不等于感情就有多么亲密。对我来说，貌似大部分时间我都盯着我的苹果手机，而忽视了妻子的存在。对自己的推特或Instagram这些社交媒体软件比较上心，不怎么在乎我妻子的感受。夫妻生活在一起时，也要让情感亲密起来。

7. Comparison Will Kill Your Joy.

7. 人比人气死人。

In an age of edited facades of other people's lives on Facebook and other outlets, it's easy to feel like your marriage sucks. Like you're getting lapped by the Jones family. When I begin to compare our money, house, kids' performance and marriage to others through a distant lens, I'm the one that loses. It robs my joy. There will always be others with more; don't play that game.

生活在脸书和其他社交媒体别人编辑过生活的时代里，很容易就会感觉自己的婚姻很糟透，像是在过着琼斯家的日子一样。在长焦镜头下，我开始和别人比金钱、比房子、比孩子成绩、比婚姻，比来比去感觉自己各方面都不行。把快乐也给比没了。总感觉别人的日子过得好，还是不要玩那样的游戏吧！

8. You'll Each Have The Opportunity To Throw It Away.

8. 都有过想要离婚的念头。

We all know the marriages that end in pain instead of celebration. Divorce instead of dancing at the 50th anniversary party. Brooke and I are realizing that some days it's far easier to give up than keep fighting. But each day, we keep choosing each other. We continue to be honest about where we fail each other. Because it's worth it.