Opposites. We learn this concept in kindergarten. The opposite of up is down, the opposite of left is right, and the opposite of forwards is backwards.
反义词,在幼儿园里我们就学过它。“上”的反义词是“下”。“左”的反义词是“右”,“前”的反义词是“后”。
What if I asked you about love. What is the opposite of love? For most, hate is what comes to mind. Seems to make sense, the opposite of like is dislike so it’s only natural that pattern follows suit on a grander scale for love vs. hate.
如果我问你“爱”的反义词呢。“爱”的反义词是什么呢。大多数人可能会想到“恨”。这似乎很有道理,既然“喜欢”的反义词是“讨厌”,人们很自然的想到,爱是更为强烈的喜欢,它的反义词也就是更强烈的讨厌。
But not anymore, not even in the slightest.
然而并不是这样,完全不是。
You see, to hate something means you have to devote energy to the idea. You must think about it, agonize over it, and be bothered by it. I used to question my husband on why his Ex’s insults and actions never got to him. “I don’t know,” he’d say. “They just don’t. I don’t care what she says or does. I do not give her a place of value in my head or heart.”
要知道,恨某样东西意味着将自己的注意力投注到这个东西上。你会总想着它,为它感到愤恨,为它而烦恼。过去我常常问我的丈夫,为什么他能对前妻的侮辱乃至人身攻击毫不介意。“我不知道”,他说,“我就是不介意。我不在乎她说什么或者做什么。在我的脑子里和我的心里,她都没有任何位置,没有一点重要性。”
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